Having children is a personal decision, and not everyone wants to walk that path. My daughter, Hailey, made that clear early on. At 23, she was confident in her choice to be childfree—and even chose to be sterilized. To me, her mother, it felt like a betrayal. Not just to me, but to our family’s legacy. Every woman before her embraced motherhood. Why couldn’t she? I’m Andrea, 43. I raised Hailey in a big, loving family where children were everything. When she said she never wanted kids, I tried to change her mind again and again. But she stood firm—wanting a career, travel,
and freedom over diapers and lullabies. I couldn’t accept it. So… I made a decision. A terrible one. Behind Hailey’s back, I approached her fiancé, Josh, and gently planted the idea of him becoming a sperm donor. Eventually, I underwent artificial insemination and got pregnant—with the intention of giving Hailey a child… without her knowledge or consent. I truly believed she would change once the baby arrived. That when she saw and held her “little sister,”