Money often becomes a source of tension in families, and in blended households, financial matters can be even more complex. Harper found herself in a difficult situation when her eldest son, from a previous marriage, inherited a substantial sum after his father’s passing,Unsure of how to handle the situation, she decided to share her story and seek advice on navigating the sensitive issue.Harper’s dilemma revolved around fairness and responsibility.
She had two sons—her 15-year-old from her first marriage and her 12-year-old from her second. When her ex-husband passed away, he left their eldest son $300,000, a sum that Harper was responsible for managing until he turned 18. While she was determined to protect this money for her son’s future, her current husband saw it differently.One evening, as they discussed financial plans for their younger son’s education, Harper’s husband suggested using a portion of the inheritance to help cover school expenses.